Meet Bill
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IMDB rating: 6.80 Plot: A guy fed up with his job and married to a cheating wife reluctantly mentors a rebellious teen. |
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How do you and your wife/husband spend your tax return?
This is our husbands first year that we filled jointly? I would like to buy new items for are kitchen and then let him have whatever is left for himself to get what he wants. Hed like to use all the money to pay bills. My only issue with this is his "bills" are gifts and trips he took with his ex girlfriend. I just feel its unfair for him to expect are whole return to go to that. When I never asked him to pay my school loans or other debt I occured befor we meet. Now I am not stupid I understand it is all OUR debt but I don’t think we should expect the return and apply it to our cost of living. And if we cannot afford are bills with out the return we need to look into getting rid of some bills.
NE way thats here nore there I was wondering how you guys handle it?
Thanks!!!
I see your point, and you should be able to use it for something for yourself, You worked hard all year and should get you something that you been wanting and saying to yourself next time. Well this is your next time.
Yes the debt is there but you are right why should you spend your half on his ex gf.
Good luck! Buy that kitchen item and don’t fell guilty about!.
Or you could just put it in a saving account and neither of you touch it and save it for a raining day, or a small vacation.
but don’t pay his bills
Ms. Angel.. | Feb 01, 2010
Why haven’t he spent money on you?
You mean you let him get away with spending lavishly on an EX and YOU haven’t demanded the SAME!
Come on, jeeze, don’t be a "cheap date".
I think you know the answer, NOW you need to KNOW how you are representing yourself in this marriage.
MAKE HIM SPEND ON YOU TOO!
If not he is going to take you for a ride, if he hasn’t already.
just me | Feb 01, 2010
I would tell him that you need X amount for household needs, then the rest can be put on "the bills".
You’re in a catch 22. Sure, you resent that the "bills" are gifts with his ex-girlfriend…but if he doesn’t pay them, your MARRIAGE goes further into debt.
I know exactly where you’re coming from. I married into debt. But, you gotta do what you gotta do as a wife, and if that means pay off those "gifts", then pay them off, even if you have to split your refund 50/50.
The sooner you do it, the less resentment you’ll have.
Kristi | Feb 01, 2010
